Confidence Boost and Tricks Every Man Can Use

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Are you struggling with low self-confidence, or are you self-conscious about your appearance? You're not alone, and in the US, over three-quarters of the population have admitted to having low confidence or feeling conscious at one time or another.

But that doesn't mean there aren't things you can do to improve your confidence. You don't have to struggle with low confidence in life. Finding tips and tricks to help you boost your confidence can help you get in the zone, give yourself a boost, and live life in the spotlight, not hiding in the shadows.

Remove Negativity

Negativity and even hate can be barreled at you from many directions. Still, one of the common aspects in those struggling with confidence issues is the internal dialogue that tells you you're not good enough.

You must learn to quieten your voice and replace negative thoughts with positive ones. Replace the "I hate" or the "I don't like" statements with "My favorite thing about me is" or "I like the way that…." If you don't let the negative thoughts in, they can’t impact you.

The same goes for those around you. Remove yourself from toxicity chipping away at you and making you believe you are less worthy of life and attention. Tell yourself you are deserving, and you can do this to boost your confidence when needed.

Dress Well

Dressing well doesn't always mean being on trend or wearing the latest designs; it means dressing well for your state of mind. Clothes that make you feel good and comfortable can go a long way in making you feel confident. Dress in clothes you want to wear, not what you think you should be, because the more comfortable you feel in your outfit, the more confident you will feel.

Challenge Yourself

Do something every day that scares you, right? These aren't always massive actions like skydiving or public performances unless you want to, then go right ahead! It is the little actions you avoid doing because you don't feel confident enough. Start with things like lifting your head and making eye contact. Take up the metaphorical space in a room with your presence, smile at people, start a conversation with a stranger, or travel to new places alone. Whatever you avoid because you don't feel like you can do it, push yourself to face your fears and see what could happen.

Get Healthy

Eating well and exercising is known for being able to boost your mood. And when you feel good, your confidence will soar with it. Many people struggle with low confidence due to body issues, and eating a healthy, balanced diet and working out can release those happy hormones that can make you feel better about yourself, your life, and everything else. Exercise releases endorphins, and endorphins make you happy.

Get any health concerns checked out, too. If anything is bothering you physically or mentally, seek professional help and support, from getting therapy to having dental implants to replace missing teeth or looking into hair regrowth options to cover hair loss. Whatever it is about your health, body, or appearance that worries you, talk to your doctor and look into treatment options to help remove this factor and get that confidence boost you need.

Fake It

Fake it till you make it has worked for many people over the years. They even made a film about one of America's greatest con men who faked multiple careers without having any training or qualifications and got away with it for years (Catch Me If You Can 2002 with Leonardo DiCaprio playing Frank Abagnale Junior). While you don't need to go to these extremes, it can be worth copying someone you admire for their confidence and seeing how you can emulate this into your behavior to help you fake your confidence until you really feel it. The more you practice, the less you will need to fake it as you learn ways and tricks to appear confident. Pretty soon, you won't be faking anything, and you will be able to draw on this to elevate your self-confidence and self-worth.

Boosting your self-confidence won't come overnight, nor will it be easy. However, it is something that is worth sticking with to help you make positive changes and improvements in your life. Once you start putting these habits into place, they will become second nature, and you can enjoy your life without being held back because you don't feel confident enough to live how you want to. x Neil

Avon Far Away Beyond the Moon Parfum

Indulge your senses and others around you, when spritzing the new intense Avon Far Away Beyond the Moon Parfum. Recently launched this year (2023) and being the new addition to Avon's popular fragrance range "Far Away" the floral and oriental scent is definitely a must-have for anyone's fragrance collection. Containing a higher concentration of fragrance oil for better projection and longer lasting wear time, far away beyond the moon contains specific notes to make anyone believe your wearing a designer fragrance rather than an affordable one. 

Presented in the typical and same style far away bottles, far away beyond the moon distinguishes itself from the collection by appearing as blue to capture the moonlit sky you see at night. Opening with the top notes wild cherry, Baies Rose and Blackberry Accord, it then progresses to the middle notes Water Fruits Accord, rich Tuberose and of course the Belle de Nuit flower - a nocturnal flower that only blooms in the moonlight. The fragrance is then supported by the base notes of velvety Milk Moon Accord, Madagascar Vanilla, and Australian sandalwood.

Spritzing on the pulse points, this impressive fragrance will draw compliments day or night and lasts a considerable long-time from the moment of application. Suitable to wear anytime of the year, Avon has provided a unique designer fragrance but at an affordable price! Available individually as a 50ml bottle, purse spray, or body lotion, you can also purchase all three as a giftset! x Neil. 

Ordo Sonic+ Charging Travel Cases

Bring convenience, style, and superior oral hygiene to your routine when purchasing the new Ordo Sonic+ Charging Travel Cases. I have previously blogged about the Ordo Sonic+ electric toothbrush and due to popular demand the travel cases are now available to purchase! Presented in five colours which are white, charcoal grey, mint green, pearl violet, and rose gold not only do they look eye appealing but are exceptionally practical.

Featuring a strong magnetic closure, the travel case keeps your toothbrush safe and secure with its slim and compact design, whilst more importantly keeping it hygienic! Simply place the sonic toothbrush into the built-in charging dock and use the provided USB cable to connect it to a power adapter, computer, or power bank. The LED indicator featured on the case shows you the charging status at a glance and when it's fully charged, the indicator light will change colour. 

Constructed from durable and high-quality materials, the case not only fits perfectly into any bag but is excellently designed to protect the toothbrush from water, dust, and any mishaps that can happen when your travelling with luggage! Priced at £20.00 and available here: Ordo Sonic+ Charging Travel Case and don't forget to use my discount code: BLONDEMALEBLOG 

Read my review of the toothbrush here: Ordo Sonic+ Electric Toothbrush x Neil.

You've Invested In Your Wardrobe, But Are You The Right Fit For It?

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Putting a good wardrobe together takes time, effort, and skill. It’s about balancing outfits that work together, giving you many options to throw something together no matter your mood or the event that precipitates getting dressed.

However, it’s also important to note that the most important element of your approach to style  is unlikely to ever reside in your wardrobe: you!

If you took time putting together your wardrobe over the years, you’ve often questioned if these styles or garments are for you. If they are, then they find pride of place on your hangers or in your drawers.

But have you ever asked the question: am I the right fit for my wardrobe?

By that, we don’t suggest that you’re not good enough to wear the clothes you’ve selected, that you’ve made a bad decision picking them out, or that you have any kind of test to pass to enjoy them. However, it’s true that from time to time, how we approach our wardrobe and wear our clothes can be just as important as the clothes we wear.

So, make sure you don’t ignore the following worthwhile efforts to wear your wardrobe with pride:

Posture & Self-Care

Remember, it’s not the clothes that make you, it’s you who make the clothes. That’s why it’s good to wear them with confidence as if they have something to prove to you. Standing upright with good posture is a good place to start, because then your threads hug your frame more suitably. With good self-care such as healthy skincare, getting enough sleep and exercising regularly, you’ll also feel much more comfortable and relaxed while wearing even the most formal arrangement.

Healthy Grooming

Great grooming makes or breaks someone’s appearance, and it’s important to make sure you care for yourself in that context. For example, visiting dentists to help clean your teeth, resolve growth issues and damage over time will allow you to smile genuinely without any worry. If you find that you perspire quite easily, then a good antiperspirant or even a pore blocker can help. Keeping your hair and beard well-trimmed will ensure your personal appearance doesn’t let down your outfit, and with certain oils may even help you smell fantastic. It’s the little details that have the most impact.

Laundry Routines

Clothes aren’t stationary items, but dynamic garments that react to being worn and will dirty over time. That’s why it’s so essential to implement a healthy laundry routine that separates whites and colors, that allows for the appropriate temperature, and in some cases, that ensures proper dry cleaning allows its best condition to shine post-event. It’s important to become familiar with laundry symbols and also have a good routine for when and how to wash each item, for example, you can wear jeans for a little while without having to wash them, while also implementing a good post-ironing routine while your shirts are still a little damp can help you remove all creases.

With this advice, you’re certain to invest in your wardrobe in the healthiest way, allowing your garments to help you look the best you can. x Neil.

Build A Skincare Routine With Facetheory.

Easily build your very own skincare routine from the wide range of products made available from Facetheory that are created to be vegan, natural, and cruelty-free. The cleverly put-together products allow the consumer to pick and choose which products they would like to use, without having to second guess if you can use the products together, which can leave you feeling confused. Facetheory take the confusion out of the skincare market and even offer unscented products to suit the most sensitive of skin types, so we can all experience the easy-to use products made in their own lab situated in the United Kingdom. Disclaimer: The links in black are not affiliated and are only used for you to find the products quicker.

Applying the right face mask will help you address some skin concerns you may have such as congestion, unbalanced skin, while helping to draw out impurities. It is important when choosing this skincare product that it is suited to your skin type and that it will help to contribute to a healthier complexion, otherwise you could see little results. The Facetheory Pink Clay AHA Face Mask uses a combination of ingredients to provide a multitasking treatment for all skin-types. Applying to a cleansed base to help the mask fulfil its potential with no interaction from other products left on the skin, the ultra-light pink clay mask should be applied evenly over the whole face. Pink clay is known to be light on the skin and is helpful to restore, soften, and deeply cleanse for a purified complexion experience. The added organic argan and jojoba oil are rich in fatty acids to hydrate and soften dry patches, while being high in Vitamin E they are a great for being non-greasy and non-irritating and are easily absorbed by the skin. Skin tone is helped by the stabilised Vitamin C included in the mask (sodium ascorbyl phosphate) is known to protect the skin from free radicals and this is why they are called an antioxidant, while the added lactic acid works gently to exfoliate dead skin cells and helps to keep the skin moisturised for longer. The gritty texture in the formulation is that of  walnut shells that offer a psychical exfoliation method, just remember your not trying to sand a bit of wood its your skin, but you can gently wash the mask off easily if you don't wish to buff the skin.
The mask is great to reach for if your looking for a combined treatment for the skin without having to use different products, the complexion looks revitalised and the skin feels hydrated and balanced all after ten minutes!

Give the skin an intense shot of non-irritating skin-loving ingredients when applying the Facetheory Regena C20 Serum that improves and protects the complexion with each application. Incorporating a 20% stabilised Vitamin C (sodium ascorbyl phosphate) in the formulation to brighten and help uneven skin tone, this water-soluble stable form (ferulic acid stabilises it) protects the skin from free radical damage and has been shown to be helpful for those who suffer with spots and acne. The gentle lactic acid also helps to buff away dead skin cells and helps the barrier function of the skin to function better, helping the skin to retain its moisture. Boosting the skins elasticity is welcomed from the dill herb extract that firms and smooths signs of ageing, while the liquorice root extract soothes with its anti-inflammatory benefits and helps to combat pigmentation and sun spots. Shaking the bottle to activate the ingredients, apply to areas of the face you wish to treat or all over for a multi-tasking skin treatment with the easy application from the dropper tool. The serum appears to be of a milky colour and glides over the skin really easily to instantly hydrate the skin with hyaluronic acid, squalane, aloe vera and Vitamin B5 panthenol, without leaving the skin feeling greasy or sticky and ready for application of your chosen moisturiser and sunscreen. Incorporating a topical Vitamin C into your skin care routine has been shown to promote collagen production, while also helping to shield the skin from daily aggressors, this is why it is suggested to use with a sunscreen in your routine as it boosts the protection! The Regena C20 Serum works well with other products you may use in your skin care routine, but certainly includes all the skin care benefits you may want when looking for a face serum to use.

Hydrate and treat the lips when applying the Facetheory Lipabalm Bioactive Lip Balm that is a new vegan-friendly lip product that doesn't use beeswax or petroleum as a base. The creamy formula incorporates hydrating ingredients that can also boost collagen, while also helping to reduce inflammation that can impact the lips. Containing a raspberry seed extract (raspberry seed oil/tocopheryl succinate aminopropandiol) it acts as an excellent skin conditioner to provide relief for lips that are distressed and in need of comfort, along with Ricinus communis seed oil (caster oil) that has been used for centuries for its skincare benefits. Hydrating the lips with cocos nucifera oil that is a natural humectant and stops moisture loss, butyrosepermum parkii butter penetrates the skin to help repair and soothe, without leaving that greasy feeling you can experience from petroleum, beeswax or mineral oil lip products. The lithospermum erythrorhizon (gromwell root extract) used in Chinese medicine is known to soothe, while also helping to aid in skin dryness by producing a moisturising effect and alleviating water loss from already dry compromised skin. The lip balm is nicely presented in an amber glass jar and can be easily transferred to the lips by either using your fingertips or any lip brush you may own. Gliding over the lips easily, the hydrating and non greasy formula immediately nourishes, while a light coconut taste can be detected if you lick your lips from the cocos nucifera (coconut) extract ingredient included. The lip balm is an essential lip-treatment that can be used to nurture the lips if u have used any drying lip cosmetic products, you are looking for an overnight lip balm, or wanting a travel-friendly lip care product that will prime and prep your lips for the day x Neil.

Shop all Products here: Facetheory and don't forget to use my discount code: BLONDEMALEBLOG at the checkout! 

Dear, Klairs - Freshly Juiced Vitamin Charging Serum

Recharge the skins radiance when incorporating the Dear, Klairs Freshly Juiced Vitamin Charging Serum into your skincare routine. Launched this year, May 2023, the serum contains a mix of vitamins C, E, B3, and B5 along with madecassoside (Centella Asiatica) to not only improve the signs of aging but also improve overall tone of the complexion. Suitable for sensitive skin types, the serum utilises 10% 3-O-Ethyl Ascorbic Acid which is a vitamin C derivative that can get into the skin and be metabolized into pure ascorbic acid whilst also having antioxidant, anti-inflammatory, skin brightening and collagen boosting properties. 

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The Dear, Klairs - Freshly Juiced Vitamin Charging Serum is cruelty-free and vegan-friendly whilst it is free from silicon oil, artificial colouring, artificial fragrance, and essential oils. The Full Ingredients:

Aqua (Water), 3-O-Ethyl Ascorbic Acid, Butylene Glycol, Niacinamide, 1,2-Hexanediol, Glycerin, Methylpropanediol, Sodium Hyaluronate, Citrus Limon (Lemon) Fruit Extract, Citrus Nobilis (Mandarin Orange) Peel extract, Citrus Paradisi (Grapefruit) Fruit Extract, Sodium Polyacryloyldimethyl Taurate, Panthenol, Pentylene Glycol, Ethylhexylglycerin, Dipotassium Glycyrrhizate, Tromethamine, Adenosine, Madecassoside, Sodium Phytate, Beta-Glucan, Tocopherol, Linolenic Acid, Xanthan Gum, Carbomer.

Applying to damp skin after cleansing morning and night, the serum instantly absorbs quickly to leave the skin perfectly hydrated and comfortable. The treatment serum can then be followed-up by applying your favourite serum and moisturiser over the top, whilst if used in the morning don't forget to use your broad-spectrum sun protection applied last! I really like how this serum combines skin hydrators and soothers with also antioxidants and skin brightening ingredients in a formula that doesn't ball-up or flake off. It is also ideal to try for those who have tried pure ascorbic acid skincare products and found they are too strong (sting) and your skin has said no thank you! 

Purchase here: Dear, Klairs - Freshly Juiced Vitamin Charging Serum and don't forget to use my discount code: BLONDEMALE1 x Neil. 

8 Simple Fashion Tips To Improve Your Appearance

Looking your best at all times is essential. This is because your appearance can increase or decrease your status among your peers, making it important to prioritise it. However, looking good doesn't always come naturally. Like any other skill, this can be learned and improved upon. You need to learn basic fashion tips to transform your appearance. Here are a few you can consider to achieve the desired results.

1. Get A Watch

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A watch is a vital fashion piece for men; you should invest in it to look stylish. Your watch should be personal yet practical as it marks your evolution through time. Additionally, it should be functional and beautiful. Getting a watch proportional to your wrists is also important to ensure comfort.

2. Emulate your idols, don't impersonate them.

Every man has a public figure that they admire for their fashion. However, a common fashion mistake that can entrap you is impersonating celebrities instead of simply taking inspiration from their style. Whether your idol is Ryan Reynolds or The Rock (Dwayne Johnson), you can emulate their style without striving to be like them. Impersonation doesn't work as it doesn’t create originality; in other words, a style that looks great on a celebrity may not work for you.

3. Know When To Change Your Hairstyle.

Haircuts form a core part of men's fashion today, so you should know when to visit your barber for a new makeover. Even if your current hairstyle has served you greatly, there will come a time when you will want to switch things up and change your looks. For instance, your dreadlocks may not match your buttoned-up vibe lately, so now could be the time to get a new style. Again, you may have left the corporate office for a long time and need an unconventional haircut to reflect your new-found freedom. Whatever the case, there are several ways to redefine your hairstyle ranging from the iconic 1990s men's hairstyles to classy modern haircuts like undercut, taper fade, and high top. 

4. Cherish Quality. 

Although picking cheap things may seem more affordable, you would spend more in the long run; low-quality garments break down faster. Whether you are shopping for new shoes, denim or a hat, invest in quality once and for all. This way, you can get items that uplift your style and last longer. As a tip, consider the cost per wear to help you make the right decision. For example, buying a less expensive suit may wear out faster, causing you to need a new one sooner. Therefore, getting high-quality options is better. This leads to the next point. 

5. Wear Your Suit Well. 

The main key to wearing your suit well is ensuring it fits you. If you buy your clothes off-the-peg, consider they fit you across your shoulders. A classic suit is ideal and practical: black, two buttons, single-breasted with minor details. Think of your suit as a uniform -- how you wear it matters more than the label inside. 

6. Dialling Your Fit. 

You can overcome 90% of your fashion challenges by dialling in your fit. Some guys wear oversized things because they think "big" usually feels more comfortable. However, wrong outfit sizes can affect your body proportions, making you look sloppy, fatter, and shorter than your actual height. Whether rocking a t-shirt, jeans or jacket, the right fit will make you look stylish effortlessly.

7. Hang out With Stylish People.

The people you move with can greatly influence your actions, dress, behaviour, and mindset. Surrounding yourself with stylish people is a good way to improve your appearance since you would learn from the best. Therefore, it's up to you to gravitate towards people who share your goals, so feel free to consider this.

8. Begin With The Basics And Build With Staples.

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James Bond, one of the fashion world's most celebrated characters, rarely wears flashy stuff. Instead, he sticks with the basics and always does that in luxurious ways. Rather than spending your resources on flashy materials that limit how often you can wear them, consider investing in basic products that can be worn more frequently. Basic solid colours or denim are the best items, and you can wear these on most occasions. Once you get the basics, you can upgrade your wardrobe by buying staples such as brighter colours and patterns.

As stated earlier, your appearance can determine how people address you. Therefore, taking the time to invest in your looks is crucial. Hopefully, these fashion tips will help you achieve the desired results x Neil.